Editor's Corner FOCUS ON SPEAKING SKILLS 12/08/11 Speaking Tips for Anyone Who Talks LOOK FOR BARB'S BLOG -- A STEADY FLOW OF SOUND ADVICE AND IDEAS at http://gettingoveryourself.wordpress.com Take the next step in your speaking life by registering for our next “How to Overcome Stress in Public Speaking” 3-day workshop. Don't put it off. WHEN: May 2, 3, 4, 2012 (See details below.) Have you missed issues of the newsletter? They're archived on our website, along with articles and tips to make you a better speaker. Go to www.GettingOverYourself.com. In this issue: Winning team presentations Getting your audience to like you Quotes can make it lively Take a look at our resource list Attend another workshop for half price October Workshop in Pasadena/ In-house seminars On my blog, someone suggested this website for quotations: http://shortquotes4u.blogspot.com/ WINNING TEAM PRESENTATIONS It seems intuitive to believe that team presenters ought to get together to practice, but I find that in many cases, each presenter is responsible for preparing and being ready to present by the appropriate time with no coordination with the rest of the team. You’ll get better results and feel more confident when there’s a coordinated plan and a leader. It helps to plan the team presentation as a single presentation with individual presenters for the various parts. So, you’d have an overall objective and central statement (thesis statement) for the entire presentation as well as an objective and central statement for individual presenters. And during the presentation, all presenters need to be present and focused no matter who’s talking. More attention to during the planning as well as during the presenting will make the whole process smoother and feel more cohesive to you and to the audience. HOW CAN I GET THEM TO LIKE ME? “How can I get the audience to like the presenter?&Rdquo; Audiences are more likely to like you if you like them first. The whole process of presenting seems to work against that because we want to look good and tend focus there. Think about your audience and what they’d like to hear while you’re preparing your message. And then stay completely focused on helping them. Use analogies and examples that resonate with them. Your plan is to keep them focused on themselves and then they’re sure to like you. QUOTES tTO MAKE YOU A BETTER SPEAKER “Honest disagreement is often a good sign of progress.” – Mahatma Gandhi “Courage is the power to let go of the familiar.” – Raymond Lindquist “Never try to tell everything you know. It may take too short a time.” – Norman Ford “No one can whistle a symphony. It takes a whole orchestra to play it.” – H.E. Luccock FORWARD THIS NEWSLETTER TO A FRIEND Thousands of people have to give presentations every day, and that includes people you know. Take a moment to forward this newsletter to them. And encourage them to sign up for their own subscription. RE-ATTEND FOR HALF PRICE As a refresher, workshop graduates (from any of my 3-day workshops) may attend for half price at any time. People have said they get as much or more out of the workshop the second time around. WORKSHOP "How to Overcome the Stress of Public Speaking" Pasadena Sheraton: 3-day workshop May 2, 3, 4, 2012 I have two public seminars each year: Spring and Fall. Registration for the 3-day workshop: $1095. Discount for three or more attendees from the same company. If you have a number of people who could use this training, please call or e-mail regarding an in-house seminar. Visit www.gettingoveryourself.com for details or call (888) 800-2001 or (626) 792-8075. Mailing address: P.O. Box 60521, Pasadena, CA 91116 Book "Getting Over Yourself: A Guide to Painless Public Speaking and More" by Barbara Rocha, 210 pages, 2nd Edition, 2004, illustrated, cartoons $19.95. The basic text you'll definitely want to walk you through the pitfalls of public speaking. If you're not comfortable speaking, you must have this book. Audiotape or CD ROM The "Getting Over Yourself" book read by the author. Audiotapes (set of three): ($17.95); CD ROMs (set of two): ($19.95)./p> Pocket-size books $9.95 each "Pocket Guide for Presenters," 103 pages The Cliff Notes version of "Getting Over Yourself." No cartoons, and less explanation of the whys and hows. 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